One of the stories I have painted for myself is that the reason I am here is to “learn as much as I can before I die.” I’m not quite sure where this came from – probably some spiritual teaching or book I read.
The truth is I really don’t know why I’m here or why I was born into this life with the parents I have, with my sister, or my children. All of my personal views as to why I’m here are based on my beliefs and theories.
I don’t have a problem with these theories and beliefs; it is ultimately what inspires me to get out of bed in the morning. Here’s the thing, though: I think everyone should think like I do and that everyone’s goals and reason for living on our earth at this time should be the same as mine, and I’m sure if they were, I would be happy; the world would be a better place while also proving that my beliefs are, in fact, true.
I’m guessing you’re thinking there are some cracks in my story.
I realize everyone individually has their own unique set of beliefs and theories as to why they are here. So why do I judge people when their beliefs and theories aren’t the same as mine?
In fact, I don’t even know why I made up the story in the first place. Why did I create the story that “my life’s journey is to learn as much as I can?” Maybe I made this story up to give myself a life purpose? What if it’s not true? Oh dear, now what am I going to do? What am I really here for? Is there any reason at all? This story has helped me bring myself into the present moment, as that seems to be the only place I know of that is actually true.
The present moment is right here, right now.
I used to belong to a men’s support group that met weekly. I suddenly found myself getting frustrated and annoyed that some of the people weren’t getting through their “stuff.” Then I realized that the reason I was going to these meetings and the reasons other people were going to the meetings were completely different.
Once I was able to accept that they had different reasons than mine, all of my judgment and frustration dissipated. I realized that I couldn’t expect others to do what I thought they should do and that my opinions were right for me, but not necessarily for others.
I have learned that we are all different with different beliefs, standards, perceptions, and views. We don’t think the same or believe the same things. Understanding this fact has helped me remove all the judgment and expectations I put on people.
If we all accept one another and ourselves for our individuality and have kindness and compassion for all human beings, it may be a very different world.
This is an excerpt of Master Peter’s book, Living with a Full Cup.
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